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Negative people get on my tits. ( Plus buy tickets for my show on the 19th May)

Yesterday I had a winge on Facebook about negative people getting on my tits. What happened was that I was out running. I’m training for the Edinburgh marathon at the moment. three weeks to go. Anyway. As I was running towards home I passed a wee local woman who was out walking. She has seen me out running a few times. AS I ran past I slowed down to say hello. She said ” you are doing well” Then with a concerned look on her face ” she said, but try not to do too much” At that point I felt a wee bit angry. I sped up before the urge to say fuck off happened :) My gripe yesterday was that I have an issue dealing with negative people. You know the ones who try to keep you in your place when you tell them about big plans you have. They say things like ” Yes but what if ( Something negative happens or it doesn’t go as planned”

 

There are other people that annoy me for this reason. I feel like I’m quite a positive person who has ambitions and sometimes feel like these people hold me back. Then after a bit of thinking I got realised that the negative people aren’t the problem here. I don’t think they genuinely mean any harm in what they are saying. They are just seeing the world from their point of view. They see the worlds through a different lens than I see the world. Where I see an opportunity, they see a problem, Where I see a big goal that gets me away from the boredom of a normal life, they see a scary risk from the normal nine to five secure day job.

So the problem I have been having here is not these people who see the world differently. The problem is how I have been letting there way of seeing the world affect me. There probably isn’t a lot I can do to make them change how they think. They are probably quite happy in the way they look at the world. So from now on I’m going to accept how these people see the world. We are all different and have different ways of looking at things. They are quite happy in their world so who am I to change that. All I can do is do what I want and only be influenced with the people that have see the world through the same coloured glasses as me.

Fuck the system glasses :)

 

If you want to hear more about this story and how saying fuck it more is a good thing but tickets to my show in Victorias on the 19th of May. CLICK THIS LINK FOR TICKETS NOW.

 

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